HOW TO SPOT THE WRONG GUY/BABE

HOW TO SPOT THE WRONG GUY/BABE

I was a victim of wrong relationship not once, not twice. "Wrong Partner"  means different things to different folks. So define yours clearly and add one or two things from here to your arsenal of knowledge.

  

I was on my way to church for early morning prayers when my spirit redirected my focus to a lady on a walk-out, the curves, the plumpiness, were breathtaking,  even without seeing the face.

Scripture break:

Matthew 7:15-20

Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. 16 By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles?17 Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. 19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20 Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them.


She was also on her way to the prayer meeting, of course  she was walking ahead of me. I hurriedly move faster to grace the wonder work of God on the face to know if my spirit will be pleased with her.

Lo and behold, she happens to be one of my casual friends in church from distant though, we guys keep good relationship with every Jil for times like this.

"Morning sis,.. morning sir" we greeted and went in for prayers.

The moment we got out of church, I was on Facebook checking for possible mutual friends with her... I got it. Sent her a friend request and waited till the next day before she accepted. We chatted, got her contact...

You know where there's a will there will be a way... We have been thought about that severally.

Lastly, I had to ask the Lord in prayers before asking her out. God showed me a dream, I wasn't too clear but I still asked her out anyway... Sharp guy...

At the end, God saved my sorry ass...you don't need to know the details.

To spot a wrong guy/babe, check what that person appeals to on your inside... Does he/she appeal to your lust or to your love.

When a person appeals to your lust, the reason you want to be with them is for what they possess.

But when a person appeals to your love, you want to be with them for their potentials - what they carry on the inside.

From US To U

The Onalajas

IS HE /SHE TRULY IN LOVE WITH ME?

IS HE /SHE TRULY IN LOVE WITH ME? 

Check Your Love-Gauge Here! 

In love, words carries much weight than you can ever imagine. 

For jokes, a happily married young man traveled out of the country, only to call his wife to update her on how things were going but network was crippy... So he sent sms instead saying "I wish you were her" instead of "I wish you were here."

A teenager walked up to her dad (a pastor)  and told him about this young man disturbing her for an intimate relationship and the dad asked, do you love him, which she replied "I think I'm beginning to," so the dad told her to read 1Cor 13:4-7, any where you see love or charity put his name there instead and get back to me. 

Love never gives up . 

Love cares more for others than for self. 

Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. 

Love doesn't act in arrogance. 

Love is not puffed up.  

Love doesn't force itself on others, 

Isn't always "me first," 

Isn't easily provoked. 

Doesn't keep scores of the sins of others, 

Doesn't rejoice when others beg them, 

Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, 

Puts up with anything, 

Trust God always, 

Always looks for the best, 

Never looks back, 

But keeps going to the end. 

When she was done, she told her dad "he is a bully in school." 

Measure your partner's love on this gauge and hold on to that which is right. 

From us to you 

The Onalajas

DANGER SIGNS BEFORE GETTING MARRIED

If you are reading this,  you are either married or about to, sooner or later.

The questions each of us must answer is "Why do I want to get married?"
Am I getting married for the right or wrong reason?
Am I getting married to the right or wrong person?
Am I truly ready for marriage?

GETTING READY FOR MARRIAGE

Everything you've been through in life is part of the make-up for the new life you are heading for.  Life is preparing you for marriage one way or the other.

Are you Emotionally ready?

Listen to what the Bible says about this in Proverbs 22:24 *Don't befriend angry people or associate with hot-tempered people*

One of the first things I try to correct before going into any relationship is father -daughter relationship (for the female folks- always watch out for Father-Son relationship). It tells a lot about your partner.

If she doesn't have a good relationship with a male figure in her life,  she won't have a good relationship with you as time goes by.

Except  you correct this, don't proceed to ask for her hand in marriage it's a danger sign.

You can help her through the healing stage.  She has to forgive and show love or show tolerance.


Watch out for other danger signs.

Join us (Oluwatobi & ADEMOLA) as we begin our journey of no looking back.